Telling Lies to Get What you Want is Okay
Remember you are dealing with Ego!
We are in the world of liars and thieves, and people who will sell their soul to the devil to get exactly what they want. Not what they need, but what they want. For we are living in a world where no matter what people have they are not satisfied. I have met friends who have many credit cards, a good job — and they still moan that they do not have enough to get by. Because we are living in a world where people are not thankful and grateful for what they have and the things that are in their life, despite this difficult time we are in.
I say; you are dealing with humans that want more and more and more, and because they want more, they are happy not to give any of what they have — because as far as they are concerned they do not have enough. Despite you getting by on the bare minimum they will feel like they cannot give you any of their money; because if they give you they will have less for themselves. I say; this is why lying is okay.
Never tell people what you have, never tell people what you need either, because you are living in a world where the more you need people — the more they turn their back on you. You are living in a world where humans believe the rich should always have more, because that is the way it should be, and the poor should always have less. So when you call up the friend who has the numerous credit cards and good job — never tell them how much you are struggling — you will not get any help, trust me. Better to just say what your idea is — where you wish to go to make more, and see if they wish to be part of that vision. If they do not — move on to another.
Do not dwell on people that are your friend for the attention you bring to them, or just so they can say how better they are doing than you. At this time it is not about competition. It is about surviving the best way that you can. Humans at this time are pretty weak human beings — they moan and complain about everything. If you are in the minority — where you are able to face your hardship and just move forward with a new idea and vision — then you are an asset to those around you. So if they reject being part of your vision, it is their loss! Move on to another who are able to choose themselves, and see that with you getting their financial help — you can progress — and they can progress too.
Do not give anyone you ask for financial help all the information. Do not expect them to understand where you are going with everything. They are not at the same level as you and have not been through the same challenges. They know their challenges and are only able to take certain risks, but will not always take the risks you take. Never get upset with friends or family that do not help you in your vision or business. See it as it is their loss — when you hit it big they will lose out on a great investment. Understand — you are worth it! Remember that there are many people out there who worship certain people in their life that have never helped them, and give those people everything. They are not used to you asking, that’s why they will seek to tell you; no, before you even finish your sentence as to what you desire from them. That is their issue not yours.
Trust me, I have learned the hard way! I learned when you have nothing — no one wants to help you. They only wish to assist you when they believe you have everything, which makes no sense logically. But we are dealing with a world filled with ego, and people in ego are stupid. If you were to open the brain of some of these people you would realise how dumb they really are; they have no common sense. When you are dealing with humans who have gone back to caveman days — stupid to a fault. You must treat them as if they are stupid — stupid people cannot understand concept — of what is best for both in a business deal. They are consumed by want, and trying to explain everything on how you both can prosper — they just will not get it. So to be honest, just give them the details of what they are prepared to understand through their “ego brain of want,” and if they are getting what they want — they will say yes to you. Because they cannot contemplate anything else than money, so as long as you are able to bring back money to them, they are happy.
Why lie? Because telling the truth — will not set you free with people in ego. People in ego lie for a living. You coming with the truth means they will automatically believe you are lying to get what you want — because they lie every minute of every day to get what they want. They do not even have to think about it, it is in them because they have done it so many times. They do not need to think about what to say, they already know. Now understand, do not misunderstand this article. I am not saying every single person you meet and who is in your life; is a liar. I am saying; humans in this current world seek to hold on to everything — and as they seek to hold on to everything; because they fear losing everything. They will not seek to understand how they can help you and get everything, because ego always attracts the opposite of what ego believes ego wants. I cannot explain here how it works, that would take another article.
All I am saying to you is — stop telling people; who lie for a living, the truth, to get what you desire; it will not work. Lying is all they understand. They will just twist the truth to lie, in order they do not give you what you really need to survive. If you ask them for £10 they will say you asked them for £50, and they just had to say no because they didn’t have it. Understand, if they give you £10, seek to multiply that money. Be thankful and grateful for all you have, and seek to buy something that you can turn that £10 into £20. Always seek to gain more from the little you have — because once you get it they may not seek to give it to you again. They will see it as what they have is for themselves. So please use any bit of kindness, to make more, until you find someone who is willing to help you again, because understand, souls willing to give you anything in your time of need, are very few at this time.
Never tell the truth to someone in ego — this will be your downfall. Understand, I am speaking from experience. I have told the truth to many people in ego because I thought I should always tell the truth at all times. They have used it to make me suffer by lying and telling a different story about me, which I never told them. I realise you never tell liars the truth about you, because they will mix half of the truth into what they choose to lie about, and people will believe them because some of it you told them is indeed the truth.
Stay away from the drama people. This is how you know — the ones that will tell your story differently, the ones that make a big deal when you ask them for a £10. They have to come up with every scenario before they give you the £10. They have to dramatise everything and let you know how much they have given to everyone else. These are the ones you never tell them why you need the money, because they will use your hardship against you. So these are the ones you just tell them your vision of where you wish to go, and see if ego will wish to get what ego wants out of it — and 9 times out of 10; ego will go for it.
Never ask someone with 20 jobs to invest in you, because they have 20 jobs, they are not about to invest in you — they are getting money from other places. Do not ask big companies to be part of what you see — they do not care about small ideas, they are making enough money. Instead ask the guy working his butt off in a dead-end job and just looking for the next big thing to get himself out of his situation, he will be able to see your vision better. Even him; you have to tell the story the way he is prepared to hear it, because if he is in a dead-end job that means he cannot see a bigger vision than you. He needs to invest first, and then walk him through the process.
Never ask people for money who have never given you anything before — they are not your investors. Your investors are people you connect with in some way, whether through their egos or not — there is something you have they want, and because of this they will be willing to help you get there. Never get involved with any fast money skims; they do not exist. Never give money away if you are not getting something in return for it. Your money is precious, with the little you have, use it wisely. The greatest trick the very rich have gotten away with, is making the poor believe their little money is not worth anything. Even £1 is worth something — it can get you a box of juice to quench the thirst of your child.
No matter how many times you hear NO, keep going. You will find a way — the universe has a way of brininging things and people to us when we least expect it. At this time women are more cruel than men. I would say; better to approach a man if you need any investment, women are used to getting money and therefore will not chooose to give. They are also more likely to tell everyone they gave it to you, when a man will give it and not talk about it. To all the women that will moan about this, I say that is from my experience. If your experience with women have been different then good for you. But my experience is men have helped me in my life more than women, and this is why I say this. I have gone to women hungry with no food left in my cupboard, and I have been told no when they had it to give me. They even ate while I was there to show me they had and I didn’t have; so that is my experience, but yours may be different. Either way, the message is to focus on the people in your life, you can ask in the right way, that can help you. If you have to lie to get what you need to survive, then do it. This time is about surviving at all cost — in the presence of a fearful ego fueled world.
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